Jan 26, 2010

The Five interesting Stages of Volunteering

The Five interesting Stages of Volunteering.

In the past 10 years of my life in the Art of living organization I have observed that the Life of an Art of living volunteer mostly goes through a few stages described below.



1st Stage is what I call as the ENTHUSIASM (or New born Baby ) stage- This person has just experienced Kriya and completed the course ,he feels elevated and High to go and share his experience with everyone. He feels like new born baby, ready to transform the world with his knowledge. His AOL teachers are like God for him and the volunteer’s are like angels. He wants to be like them.

2nd Stage is the LEARNING stage- He shortly realizes that there is more to learn than he thinks because his/hers enthusiasm is not being taken very enthusiastically by people of his world. So he becomes a perfect student. Ready to listen and do what his mentors want to teach.

3rd Stage is called the GRACE stage- This is the Best stage, when the volunteer experiences Guru’s Grace flow through him. He is in a constant state of wonder about how nice he feels while doing seva . When people actually listen to him with open ears ,and words which he has no clue of come out of his mouth. He feels on cloud nine when he sees a person he registered sitting on a course and thanks him for it.This feeling keeps growing as others start complimenting him and look up to him like a hero.
There are 2 kinds of people in the Art of living
1st are Those who have gone through the 3rd stage
2nd are Those who haven’t
For the 2nd kinds I have an advice, You are missing the most elevating experience of life. So quickly join the 1st category.

4th Stage is called the SVS (Senior Volunteer syndrome)stage- At this stage suddenly the “New Star” starts hallucinating. He in his own mind has imagined a position for himself and thinks himself superior now .He /she feels like a King or a lion/Lioness. You will generally hear such sentences from a SVS patient
‘ You know, when I give intro talks everyone listens”
or
“It’s a small talk ask a new volunteer to give it, I just give BIG talks”
or

”When I sing in satsangs people go so deep”
or
“In my last talk every single person registered, my talks are the best”
or
“You know, Bawa and Dinesh know me by my name”
or
“You know Guruji personally told me to sit on a TTC”
or
“For me a TTC is just a formality, I am ready to teach”
etc etc.
They have an air of authority around them and whenever they find a Bakra they grab their change to exhibit there seniority.

This stage can last Really Really long in one’s career in the Art of Living.
I think at this stage Master is having fun watching the show as he lets it continue for as long as he wants, until the 5th stage comes.

5th and the final stage is the Great Fall – One day you open your eyes to find that now you are in Ethiopia (A place where your existence means nothing more than a dust particle). No one knows you or your qualities here. And the harder you try the further you move from your goal of creating an identity in this place. This is the Great fall. Until you realize fully that you are only an instrument in the hands of the Master and he is the director of the whole show he keeps cooking you.


Our Master makes sure that we do not get stuck in any false identities and only aim for the highest and keeps giving us such experiences.

He is himself the epitome of humility and that’s for us to learn from. He even feels the thirst of a plant ,so very sensitive he is. His message of love is moving this world and as his messengers the 1st and foremost for us is to learn to be humble , polite , sensitive and loving to all.
If we have these qualities and none other, we are eligible to represent him but if the above are missing I think we missed the boat.



I shared the above with the volunteers in our weekly satsang .Both Siddharth and Virat suggested that I share with you. Hope you like it. Please comment☺

Vasudha.

28 comments:

Virat said...

WAH WAH WAH WAH WAH!!!!!!!

Keep Going Vasu!!

Love
Jgd
Virat

Vinod said...

Sooooo beautiful!
Jgd

Unknown said...

this the best post i have ever seen on the net VASUDI too good this post was an eye opener i came to know in wat stage i am. IT MUST BE MADE COMPULSORY FOR EVERY AOLITE TO READ THIS POST

jai gurudeva
love
dhaval

Dhaval said...

This is the best post that I have read on net. The post was awesome and just too good VASUDI. it was an eyeopener for me and i came to know in wat stage i am. IT MUST BE MADE COMPULSORY FOR ALL THE AOLITES TO READ THIS ONE

jai gurudev
love
dhaval

Aroon said...

Amazing Sharing!!! I should keep this in front of me to keep reminding me irrespective of the stage(including stage -1 :)) I might be in!!! Jai Guru Dev

AparnA said...

:) :) super cool

Siddharth said...

Superb! Aptly put.

mirror image said...

hey vasu di,
amazin one!!!

Jgd
Love

Pratik Gindodia

Arushi Dass said...

JGD

this is too cool didi..

Unknown said...

wow its so true! and useful for new volunteers to get out of the Fifth Stage

JGD

Shubha said...

This is one of the best article i have read,,,,,,,,that too on the volunteers!!! Superbly written n expressed.....n so completetly true....thank you so much for sharing this :-)
Much love...
Jgd..
Shubha.

Janki said...

really so true Di, thank u for sharing this wid us...its jus beautiful........jgd.luv u

Deep said...

kya baat hai....mazaa aa gaya....it was really nice...i think it was really very necessary to share it because volunteers dont know / are not aware of these phenomena s....
but if they become aware of it, then i hope they will be more watchful of their minds...i have, off-late, realized that Guruji REALLY REALLY LOVES FUN.....and he is there to give you experiences, worth living for...
i Wonder....
Jai Guru Dev...:)

sukeerti said...

wow! dis is really nice piece of thought:)



luv

Piyush Rathi said...

Very beautiful post! You have truly captured the essence of what a volunteer goes through! If anyone reads this post with a sincere heart, he/she is bound to learn from it... albeit wisely!

Jai Gurudev!

Mamta Pandya said...

Really Nice.Perfectly put across.

Rishabh said...

What an observation!! Truly relating with all the volunteers. Aptly describing how a sincere volunteer is born. It will now be fun watching volunteers around us and wondering what stage are they in!!

I wonder what stage I am in to watch fellow volunteers around me:)

Lekshmi said...

Wonderful post! A special must read for the volunteers who are in their nascent stages of their volunteering so they don't lose their way!
In fact its a must read for each and every volunteer!
Thanks a lot for sharing Di.

Jai guru dev! :)

Prashant said...

really nice 1. thanx for it.

Art of Living - Mumbai group said...

Well said, Vasudha.
Thanks for warning me about the 4th stage. I'll all try & keep my awareness up to catch this creeping up on me!!
Meanwhile, I'll try & get to the 3rd stage! :)
Deepak

Ekta said...

i like the post so much ...bcoz may be i m in the second stage now and was wondering where did my enthuiasm go.....and i got suc a perfect reply to all my doubts....

:)

janvi said...

its very nce 1. love u dii .

Anonymous said...

Do write about teachers too :)

Anonymous said...

wow thats true i never realised it bt it happens wth every volunteer

Venki said...

Wow truly amazing...

Jgd
Venkat

trishna said...

hey jgd...its really very true...i like it..and wish tht every volunteer should read this and judge themselves....tooooo gudd...

Pothi said...

True!!!

jai guru dev

khushbu vira said...

amazing di!

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