Sep 21, 2009

Happy Birthday Bau:)

Dinesh da is writing an article on the blog for Bau for his birthday, and he asked us all to send some of our experiences. So I got inspired to write this post. Dinesh da being my teacher I love following his footsteps:)
What should I write about Bau or should I say what not to write. As some rightly say Bawa is a phenomenon, when you meet him you can only feel awed and wonder!

Let me narrate you a recent incident... I was at the ashram last weekend for the TRM (teachers refresher meet).All through the TRM I was desperately waiting for the moment to meet Guruji. I was damn upset about something going on in my mind and I wanted Guruji to answer my questions. Questions to which I knew only Guruji has answers for. So I was waiting, waiting and waiting for the moment to arrive. And finally Guruji called the YES+ teachers to meet him personally. There were many people and I was waiting for my moment with him when I could ask him my question. Just after a few minutes of the meeting he dismissed it and asked us all to go. I experienced a storm of emotions as I was feeling dejected and angry. I was so upset that I could not hold myself and tears rolled through my eyes. I walked away from the crowd to hide my emotions from others. But guess who noticed, it was Bau. You really don’t want to be noticed by Bau, specially in such moments. This is what followed next…..

He caught me by my hand and with a silly grin and a naughty tone he asks me, “What happened, why are you crying”. Two seconds later “Tell na What happened,tell na”... The expression on his face was surely not of concern, to me it looked more like that of delight:) “Tell na” he continued asking me. Tears were still rolling from my eyes. He notices and says, “If you are looking for attention then Cry properly na”:) :) :) I could not hold my laughter at that ☺ I finally confided my feeling to him and at the end of it I thought Bau will now come up with a PRECIOUS ADVICE for me. This is the VALUABLE advice he gave me.
“PLAY MORE BOARD GAMES,JUST PLAY MORE BOARD GAMES”:)
WHAT!!! What has board games to do with this I thought…


But that’s the way he is, so very practical. You can be anything but serious around him. He makes living a play.

Yes!And that’s also been my journey with him, last 8 years, filled with fun and life. He has mastered the skill of simplifying the most difficult and complicated subjects that relate to life into something so simple.
Let me give you an example
So, a Yes+ participant asks very seriously, What is the difference between Happyness and Peace? Bau answers: Happiness is the feeling that you get when you see the toilet door open when you REALLYYYY wanna go, and what follows immediately after that is peace of Mind:)

Could you have ever thought of it like this, genius isn’t he?

Though so very playful he is the most sensitive person I have ever met. He is extremely intuitive and has several siddhis. I remember we were at the Gourmet shop in inorbit mall. And I could barely stand because I was having a severe headache. Bau understood this . He asked ,do you like olives(he had one in the hand) 'an olive was the last thing on my mind' and I said, no not at all. He puts the olive in my mouth. And immediately the headache disappeared:) That’s not it from that day onwards I started liking Olives so much that I eat away all from Shashwat's and Siddharth's pizza slices also:)

I feel so very grateful to have had a mentor and a guide like him in my life. One who broke all concepts in mind and made life like a play. It’s just Ok to be yourself around him. No facade or formality is required. You can just be so natural around him:)

I have been so lucky to have received so much affection and love from Bau.
He is a friend, a mentor and an inspiration to me.
Love you sooooooo much Bau. YOU ARE SIMPLY THE VERY BEST:)

A VERY VERY VERY VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU. May you live a long healty life.

With love and Regards

Vasudha.

20 comments:

Unknown said...

Wonderful..... reading it, I re-lived, some moments spent with Bau.... Happy birthday Bau....

siddharth said...

So true vasudha, Bau has always been there to hold us when we have needed some one the most, once after rudra puja in ashram i was feeling so miserable missing guruji that i culd not hold my self back and was profusely weeping. Bau saw that and he called me from far off and made me sit with him.He sat with me like for 15-20 mins after the pooja,even after everyone had left; till i was feeling better. So many times in so many ways he makes you feel that he just loves you. And i will never forget this satement of bau which gives a glimpse of the embodiement of love that he is "I and dinesh teach you and spend time with you not because we want you to be as good as we are but so that you can be even better than us."
Bau sending loads and loads of love for u.
Happy birthday

sukeerti said...

many many happy returns of d day dearest bawa. Thnks 4 being there.
lots n lots of luv 2 u.:)
Sukeerti

Neha Khandelwal said...

Happpyyyy B'day bauuuuu....So very true didi..

Jainil Khandelwal said...

Many many happpyy returns of d day bau...
Live a long long healthy life...Keep spreading lite around the world in ur supercool style!...Misssing u...Pls come soon to goregaon..
Love and wishes..
Jai Gurudeva!

YES!+ ChN said...

Happy birthday Bau!

@ Vasudha didi.... Awesome Post!

Virat said...

When Bau travels 10kms, his stories travel a 1000! Many years ago, my friend told me to check out this “cool IITian” on a cool course called the “DSN”! I said No, and somehow ended up going and taking the course (wonder what pulled me;).


After one session, when I was bitten by the ‘Bau Bug’, I went to Devang and told him I wanted to meet Bawa. He took me in Bawa’s room where Bau was happily sitting, with a slice of pizza in one hand and playing a game on his laptop with the other! I was vowed!!! I had never seen such a genuine, supercool “spiritual teacher”!!


I have had 3 turning points in my life. The 1st when i was ‘So-Humed’, the 2nd when i met Guruji, and the 3rd when I took my DSN with Bawa!!!



Bawa says, “There is a method to my madness”. I don’t know if it is madness, sheer genius, or is it got something to do with being Parsi;) whatever it is - it rocks!! and it lights our lives with wisdom and love - makes it worth living!!



40 years have gone, and may 40 more come! Thousands have been guided, and may a million more come!

Forever in gratitude;

Truckloads of Love n Wishes;
Jai Gurudev,
Virat

Mamta Pandya said...

Many Many Happy Returns of the Day
Dearest Bau.
lots ,lots & lots of love and wishes.....:-)




Mamta

Komal Naik said...

BAU!!!
A Very Happy Birthday To U!!!

Akhil said...

whenever i see bau my "self-made concepts" of how this world operates completely changes and i am triggered to broaden my vision and see a rather different world which has no limits on having fun and no impossibilities in accomplishing any goal!!

every time u sit with him there is inspiration flowing in every cell until he leaves and then a question follows- "are we living full or just exisiting?"

u said it di!!
happy birthday bau!!
love,
akhil

janvi said...

happy birthday bauu......
love janvi

Arnav said...

I cant stop from having a 1000 watt smile on my face,even if i hear bau's name..when i sit to speak something about him i lack words for He is THE BEST...and sometimes i just go on and on and on..Wishing you a very happy birthday BAU...Live a healthy life n continue lighting the path perfectly as you always do it for us..
lots of love 2 u BAU....
JAI GURUDEVA...!!!
Arnav

Unknown said...

ty v much everyone
Jai Gurudeva!
love
bawa

Unknown said...

and vasudha, have you been playing more board games? :)
Good for your health :) :)

Aanchal said...

happy birhdday bauu!! we all love u!!hope to see u out here relle soon!! hav a grt bday!!! jgd!!

mihir said...

bauu !!! m really excited for your birthday and more than that bauuu Appy burrrrrrrrday !! :)

cheers to the person whoz really given a whole new dimension to my life !! long live bau !! :) lov yaaaa !! :)

shefali said...

hapi bday bau
wanna meet ya ...!!
jaigurudev..!@

Anonymous said...

bawa u and dinesh di is most wonder full people how come on this plant for us. happy birthday bawa miss u lot

Deep said...

i think nobody knows it...but now now everyone will..
i am into AOL because of Bawa..this is because of some time spent with him at the back stage during the #1 Utsav...
i was really impressed by his wit and thought that staying around is a good idea..so i implemented the good idea..
everytime in his presence a new learning has happened..so actually its gr8 to have him on this planet...:))
Wish u a gr8 Birthday Dearest Bawa..
JGD

Rishabh said...

A very very happy bday to u BAU.


PS:Got to start liking 'Alhambra' after that advice:)

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